11 Sep A Yale University study found that just 42 percent of black women are married, and a variety of high profile news networks such as CNN and. 20 Mar White women, if you're married to a black man and have children, here's a newsflash: You're still white. You don't get an honorary black card. 26 Feb In , Steven James Dixon, relationship expert and author, wrote a short piece titled, “Why I Married a Black Woman” for Essence. In it Dixon.